Unleash Your Authentic Leadership

A Revolutionary Journey to Self-Discovery and Impactful Leadership, like you've never experienced before...

Are you joining us in Southern Spain from November 7th to November 11th 2024?

We will be traveling in


The greatest influence you have as a leader is the influence on your personal leadership. You harness that optimally in connection with yourself.

We all encounter challenges in life

Life is filled with challenges, setbacks, and obstacles, ranging from small to large: we may face (serious) illnesses or burnout, or we see loved ones struggling with their health. We may encounter accidents or the loss of our loved ones. We may also face fertility problems when having children is a deep desire. Even having a family is challenging, with the stress of the toddler years or the turbulence of the teenage phase. These challenges are just a few examples of the challenges we encounter on our life's journey.

This demands a lot of resilience, and that's not easy.

Especially when, alongside personal matters, we are also confronted with the expectations and pressures of work. You want to deliver results, and everyone wants something from you. This makes you feel the pressure to perform and leaves little time for self-reflection. Yet, self-reflection is crucial in difficult times. The lack of moments for introspection can lead to a lack of awareness of personal values, motivations, passions, and needs.

During challenges in your life, you may also find it difficult showing your vulnerability, fearing judgment or weakness. This can prevent you from being authentic and fully expressing yourself.

Often, as humans, we hold unrealistically high expectations of ourselves. Constantly striving for perfection can lead to self-alienation because you don't allow yourself to be human and imperfect.

In this quest, it's common to find that you're losing energy, which you so desperately need in the various roles you fulfill daily to keep everything going.

You're not alone, as this is something we all encounter as humans.

What makes it difficult to deal with these challenges in life?

  • You try to juggle all the balls in the air, not making choices.
  • You encounter old family patterns (taking responsibility, crossing boundaries, etc.) that influence your personal leadership.
  • You fear judgment or rejection from others in the organization or in your personal life.
  • You feel the need to constantly step into a 'role' and cannot be fully yourself. Along the way, you lose your own identity.
  • You notice that you are (completely) missing your work-life balance, and it causes stress. How do you keep everything running?

Recognizing causes is an important first step towards restoring the connection with yourself. Discover the power of authentic leadership, where you can truly be loyal to yourself, and take the first step towards a deeper connection with yourself and the people around you.

How would it be for you if...

You become more resilient and better equipped to deal with the challenges that you encounter in life. It enables you to consciously choose how you want to respond to challenges and to continue developing yourself as an individual.

Connecting with yourself allows you to remain true to who you really are. By being yourself and speaking your own truth, you can inspire others and lead life in an authentic way.

You grant yourself the space and time to truly get to know yourself. Discover your family patterns, underlying dynamics, triggers, and survival mechanisms that influence your personal leadership.

You discover your (family) values, limiting beliefs, and strengths. You understand what drives you and what holds you back. You discover your guiding principle for everything you do: the choices you make and the way you lead your life. Get to know your authentic leadership and  connect with others from a place of self-awareness.

You lead your life from your strengths and authenticity, you thrive as a person. During the 5-day intensive personal leadership program, you return to the essence, literally immersing yourself in the beautiful nature of Southern Spain. With an intimate exclusive group, there is space for you to grow and be continuously mirrored.

  • Immerse yourself in this unique opportunity to unleash your connecting leadership. Are you ready for this transformative journey with yourself, and do you want to know more?

Total value: โ‚ฌ5,000.
Today only: โ‚ฌ3,250,-*

Unleash your authentic leadership

On Thursday, November 7th, 2024, until Monday, November 11th, 2024, we are taking an exclusive intimate group to the beautiful mountains and nature in Malaga, Southern Spain. During the leadership program, you will get to know yourself to the deepest core.

Here's what you get:

  • 4 nights in an authentic private room in Southern Spain
  • Guidance by the best coaches in the Netherlands
  • Fantastic vegetarian catering (breakfast/lunch/dinner)
  • Personal family constellation to understand your family patterns
  • Immerse yourself in the beautiful Spanish nature, such as hiking in the mountains and getting acquainted with self-sufficient living
  • You will learn various breathing techniques and participate in meditation sessions (in movement) to inhabit your body in a different way
  • Prior to and following the revolutionary journey, you will receive a personal coaching session

Are you ready to embark on this journey?

*The price is exclusive of VAT and transportation (flight + transfer).

Please note that the spoken language is Dutch.

After the intensive leadership program, you will be...


You have undergone a revolutionary journey of self-discovery and impactful leadership, like you've never experienced before, leaving you completely awakened.

Your complete self

Like no other, you now know who you are at the deepest core and what you need. You are connected with yourself, enabling you to be the person you aspire to be, always.

Aware of your boundaries

You know what you need and can guard your boundaries effectively. As a result, you experience much more peace and carry no responsibilities that don't belong to you.

Taking control of your life

You are less driven by external forces and have regained full control over your own life. You dare to make important decisions with confidence and from a place of strength and authenticity.

Knowing what you need

You are living entirely on your own terms. You know what you need and are equipped with the right tools and knowledge to live your life to the fullest. You thrive as an individual and as an authentic leader.

Richer in connections

You became part of an exclusive and inspiring network of like-minded people. A network that is invaluable, offering ongoing opportunities for mutual learning, during and after the journey.

A truly sustainable change that adds value to who you are and what you do.

In the intensive 5-day leadership program, we turn inward and return to the essence.


  • Who are you, and what is your personal theme?
  • Through a 1:1 coaching session, we get to know you and your goals better.

Day 1: Start of the revolutionary journey

  • During the day, you travel to Southern Spain or arrive earlier to enjoy a few days in Malaga.
  • From 3:00 PM, you are welcome at the location to explore your private room and the surroundings.
  • At 5:00 PM, an extensive introduction to each other as a group begins.
  • We share our travel goals, build psychological safety, and prepare for the journey ahead.
  • Along the way, we learn from each other and exchange experiences.

Day 2: Self-discovery, who are you really?

  • We begin the day in nature with various breathing exercises, then embark on a hike through the stunning mountains of Southern Spain.
  • We discover our survival mechanisms, triggers, and behavior patterns.
  • We reflect on what has shaped us and which choices have influenced us.
  • We conclude each day with a delightful vegetarian meal.

Day 3: Family constellation

  • We begin the day with a meditation session in movement in nature.
  • Your invisible underlying patterns in the family system will be made visible. 
  • We facilitate a family constellation for everyone, which is a highly effective method to understand your patterns that influence our lives and affect the challenges we encounter, and learn how to break those patterns. 
  • In between, we get to enjoy a delicious healthy lunch prepared by our private chef every day.

Day 4: My values and personal mission

  • We start the day in nature by exploring self-sufficient living, including cultivating your own food.
  • We delve into our defining values and examine our limiting beliefs.
  • What does life demand from you and what drives your actions: what is your personal mission in this life?
  • We explore the various roles you fulfill in life and how you combine them from your personal strength.

Day 5: Conclusion of the journey

  • For the last time, a fantastic breakfast will be served to you.
  • As a group, we reflect on your personal journey. What will you take with you back to normal life?
  • We become one with the amazing nature one last time and celebrate the authentic and connecting person who is heading home today (We conclude at 11 am).

Reflection (4 weeks after the journey)

  • Through a 1:1 coaching session, we will reflect on your revolutionary journey, allowing you to share what has changed and what you wish to retain.
  • Optionally, you can book additional 1:1 coaching sessions.

It's a journey you haven't experienced before, why?

1. We operate on the level of identity

There are plenty of trainings and/or programs that focus on skills and abilities, and you've probably experienced some of them. In this program, we exclusively operate on the level of identity, meaning we delve into your core identity. It can be challenging at times, but the real change happens there.

2. You discover your deeper family patterns

We will explore deeper family patterns through family constellations. It's an extremely effective method to bring underlying dynamics and patterns to light. And anyone can do this. During this session, we not only make the patterns visible but also facilitate immediate healing.

3. You go back to the essence, to 'nature'

We return to the essence, and we do that by spending a lot of time in nature. Experiencing stimuli and stepping out of ourcomfort zone. It may be challenging at times, but by going back to the essence, transformation can occur.

4. It's a journey, not a training

We embark on a revolutionary journey, and it's not a typical training. We're not teaching you a trick. It's your personal journey of self-discovery, accompanied by highs and lows. That's okay because only this way can you reconnect with yourself. Go with the flow of life and discover what you need to live life to the fullest.

How have your predecessors experienced it?

"You really listen so well and can mirror me effectively."
Partner, Accounting firm
"I have gone through several leadership programs in my career. The coaches at YourConnector connected with us in a personal way and also showed vulnerability. This created a safe atmosphere in which we could all learn together."
Commercial Director, Retail Organization
"Valuable - very positive - enlightening - very pleasant - a beautiful combination of exercises."
Director, Energy Company
Nicole Solleveld en Aleid Haenen, owners of YourConnector

Hello, we are...

Nicole Solleveld and Aleid Haenen, owners of YourConnector! As owners and leaders, we understand your challenges because we have experienced them ourselves. Nicole is happy to share her personal story:

Cancer and still being very happy. Can those coexist? September 18, 2019, the day that will never fade from our hearts. The day we were told my husband has leukemia. A journey that has shaped us over the past 4 years and remains a path of emotions, resilience, and adaptation.

What if you know leukemia, despite various treatments, will never go away. How do you then continue (happily) living with cancer? We aim to lovingly embrace the disease and keep it under control rather than fighting against it. However, we have said to each other: how do we want to shape our lives if life cannot be planned anyway? What are our dreams?

๐Ÿ‘จโ€๐Ÿ‘ฉโ€๐Ÿ‘งโ€๐Ÿ‘ฆ Leukemia has reshaped our lives, leading to a smaller but more meaningful existence. We have largely settled in Southern Spain, surrounded by the warmth of the sun, the clean mountain air, and spending much time outdoors.

๐Ÿƒ Creating a self-sufficient life. Eating from our own backyard, knowing where your food comes from. Teaching our children what it's like to grow and harvest your own food. Back to basics: nature.

And of course, the dark cloud of 'not knowing' remains. But doesn't this apply fundamentally to everyone? After all, you never know what might happen in a day. The illness journey has taught us to appreciate what truly matters in life. And that is also the life we are living together now.

At the same time, it is extremely tough and it has a significant impact on your relationship, your work, and your surroundings. We have taken action and continue to do so.

Life is littered with challenges, setbacks, and obstacles, ranging from small to large. But how do you deal with them? We are convinced that personal leadership plays a crucial role in dealing with challenges in life. It's about taking control of your own life, your choices, and your responses to events.

When you're connected to yourself while strengthening your personal leadership, you can become more resilient. It enables you to consciously choose how to respond to challenges and to continue developing as an individual.

That's why we have developed this 5-day revolutionary journey for you!

Take your first step inward today, and forge a connection with yourself!